The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step If you’re an autistic guy, you’ve probably learned to hide who you are when it comes to dating You’ve been told you’re too blunt, too quiet, too intense, too weird So you overthink every text You rehearse what to say You try to act “normal.” and the result
You feel exhausted — because you’re performing instead of connecting Exactly like good looking loser did in his early 20’s I’m a fucking retard for repeating the same pattern, given i’d already read all his articles about lowering your standards Guess we have to walk our own path & make our own mistakes But now i want to get laid. My mentor chris from good looking loser wrote an article called “relax, you’ll eventually get pussy,” and i must have read it a thousand times
If she ghosts you, it’s because she’s scared of how handsome you are December 1, 2025 andy (kill your inner loser) sex & dating Loser’s mindset and all of that Feeling like your father doesn’t give a shit about you is rough, and i empathise with everyone who went through something similar. November 17, 2025 andy (kill your inner loser) when this client first joined coaching, he’d only approached eight women in his entire life He was nervous, overthinking everything, and terrified of rejection
Two months later, he was telling women “you’re sexy” and going on five dates in two weeks December 4, 2025 andy (kill your inner loser) fun fact I used to overthink texts more than you do I’d stare at my phone for twenty minutes debating whether “hey :)” was too eager or whether “hey.” was too cold I looked like a man studying ancient hieroglyphics. Sign up for my coaching so you can be surrounded by other men and women who’ll keep you accountable.
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