If you’re an autistic guy, you’ve probably learned to hide who you are when it comes to dating You’ve been told you’re too blunt, too quiet, too intense, too weird So you overthink every text You rehearse what to say You try to act “normal.” and the result You feel exhausted — because you’re performing instead of connecting
My mentor chris from good looking loser wrote an article called “relax, you’ll eventually get pussy,” and i must have read it a thousand times I used to pray he wasn’t lying. If she ghosts you, it’s because she’s scared of how handsome you are December 1, 2025 andy (kill your inner loser) sex & dating Morrissey and the smiths show up on out magazine's 100 greatest, gayest albums of all time The magazine polled more than 100 actors, comedians, musicians, writers and others
Exactly like good looking loser did in his early 20’s I’m a fucking retard for repeating the same pattern, given i’d already read all his articles about lowering your standards Guess we have to walk our own path & make our own mistakes But now i want to get laid. All of my mates have told me they have imposter syndrome while starting a new venture Most of my coaching clients tell me the same thing
It’s fucking normal to feel imposter syndrome when you start a new goal. November 17, 2025 andy (kill your inner loser) when this client first joined coaching, he’d only approached eight women in his entire life He was nervous, overthinking everything, and terrified of rejection Two months later, he was telling women “you’re sexy” and going on five dates in two weeks December 4, 2025 andy (kill your inner loser) fun fact I used to overthink texts more than you do
I looked like a man studying ancient hieroglyphics.
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