Just as a car needs both an accelerator and brakes to function properly, your sexual response system requires a balance of factors that either stimulate or inhibit arousal. Understanding emily nagoski’s brakes and accelerators model can help you embrace your unique sexuality Learn how stress, environment, and communication impact desire. Sex the accelerator and the brake Posted october 1, 2023 | reviewed by jessica schrader Our sexual excitation system (or ses, for short) emily nagoski, ph.d., is the ultimate teacher of all things around sexual brakes & accelerators
In her infamous book, come as you are, she discusses our ses and sis Our ses is our sexual excitation system, or, in simpler terms, the accelerator of your sexual response. Agree as a couple to work on this together, though it can be beneficial for yourself if your spouse isn’t willing to join you. This blog post focuses on the concept of sexual brakes and accelerators offering an opportunity for deeper understanding and appreciation in your relationship.
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