We do not condone actual rape or misogyny If you have experienced sexual trauma and need immediate help, please visit www.rainn.org Computer numerical control, in the industrial tool/custom fabrication world it's a class of cutting machines, and from my reading of his profile he's probably talking about that and not anything sexual. Sometimes people also use codes like red meaning stop, blue meaning keep going and green meaning harder or something, since you don’t usually shout names of colours during sex Proper cnc is still consensual and safe, it just pretends like it isn’t to be erotic And i know this is counterintuitive, but some people that enjoy cnc have actually been the victim of abuse in the past
Participating in cnc is their way of taking control of the experience that doesn’t mean that it’s a good or a bad thing, it’s just a data point for you. I tagged this nsfw just in case And changed up my wording per mods request This is actually really concerning Which means both partners have agreed to this There is discussion there is checking in with.
Fiction and fantasy are different from reality, and it's ok for different reactions to them Its not super uncommon and cnc fantasies have more to do with power dynamics than actual rape which has a lot more awfulness to it the fantasy strips away most of the bad and presents this idealized version if you want my really hot take that is prob unpopular More extreme fantasies and kinks are fed by porn We shouldnt be fetishizing stuff like this Imo we risk losing an appreciation for. If things are feeling off for any reason, we talk it out, to stay in a safe place of love (and sexy surprises)
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